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This Essay is by Kris Ann Valdez from Business Insider
Neighbour Friendships At Their Best -
It Doesn't Get Better Than This!
My husband and I found a sinkhole in our backyard. When we received a high bid to fix it, we decided to D.I.Y. the project following our contractor friend's detailed instructions.
The job required a few tons of dirt — more than our Subaru Forester could haul. My husband had eyed our neighbour's truck in the driveway. Even though we had lived next door to each other for 11 years, I really only knew that his name was Gary and that he was a retired bachelor. During that time, we'd exchanged no more than neighbourly waves and friendly small talk. I worried that asking him to help us haul dirt was too big an ask. It proved to be one of the best things we ever did.
Gary was outside that day, watering his plants, and he willingly stopped to chat with my husband. He quickly offered to help when my husband asked for his assistance, seemingly not bothered by the 20-minute drive or the three yards of dirt plopped into his pristine truckbed.
It was the beginning of our Friendship.
He stayed for dinner and basically became part of our family
My husband gassed Gary's truck, pumped up the tires, and washed the bed. As a thank you, I invited him to stay for dinner. To my surprise, he said yes. I worried that our spunky children might annoy a bachelor and that the meal I made was a bit dry. But Gary was pleasant about everything, from the Children badgering him with questions (including "How old are you?") to the dog licking him incessantly.
When the evening was over, my Husband said Gary had told him he was in a new phase — he wanted to be more open to what life brought his way. Our request for Help had given him the chance to say Yes.
That first dinner together led to more dinners. When we found out that Gary's Family was in Boston and that he'd be spending the holidays alone, we invited him to join our large, boisterous family for Christmas dinner. To my continued surprise, he accepted. We extended an invitation for him to spend Christmas morning with our family, too, and filled a stocking with chocolates, coffee, mints, and other treats. And when we discovered that his birthday was three days after Christmas, my 6-year-old daughter and I made him a cake and gave him more chocolates while the family dog showered him with kisses.
Over time, he became a Grandad figure to my children. Reflecting on our Friendship, it's wild to think we lived next door to Gary for more than 10 years before getting to know him. The same goes for another Neighbour on our street. She and I are now Close Friends through our mutual love of writing. We, too, had been Neighbours for more than a decade before we learned of our shared passion. I wish we got to know our neighbours sooner, and I'm still Grateful for their Friendships.
We love that our children are growing up with a sense of community
For Gary, our family fills that gap created by a far-flung Family. He even asked for a photo of us to share with his Boston relatives when he visited them recently. Our dog, Maple, enthusiastically greets him at every opportunity. He plays catch with our toddler. Our 7-year-old asks him to toss her in the air or watch her latest gymnastic trick, while our 12-year-old ensures we never forget him on our nightly walks.
I believe neighborhood relationships teach our Children how to pursue unlikely Friendships and Care for others outside their Inner Circles. It's one of the greatest gifts of their childhoods to know neighbours like Gary. And to think it all happened because he said Yes to an Inconvenient Errand and Dinner Invitation.
Janets Comments
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