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Limits Can Lead to Adapting and More Cooperation,
Peace and Joy in Families

Almost always, the challenges parents are seeking to solve when they come to see me—meltdowns, inflexibility, defiance, or power struggles—are rooted in the absence of an important limit. That is what is causing so much stress for the entire family.⁠

When the limit isn’t clear, and there is a lot of discussion or negotiation about something (more books at bedtime, more things the child says they need to do before they are willing to go to sleep, more treats, more screen time...), it opens up a big, black hole that the child fills with endless attempts to keep parents engaged or to get them to do what they want. This is not just exhausting and maddening for parents; it is exhausting for kids who expend a lot of mental energy making their case and pursuing all angles, getting themselves increasingly wound up and dysregulated.…

I subscribe to Just Jesus you could say – no extras! Many Religious Teachings are so Unbalanced. So please do be careful of Sales Pitches – the obvious and the subtle. It’s real Conjecture, that is…….it’s not Preaching the Gospel, it’s Attacking people.

The Gospel actually means Good News and Glad Tidings in the language it was written in  – not Bible Bashing and displaying how awful you can be. No-one wants that kind of Religion, where your behavior is right out of line. Yuck! How dare people Act like that, and put God’s Name on it – especially Jesus precious Name. You can rest assured that Jesus has nothing to do with it.

It is true that a Good Living Person is better to be around than that kind of person – better behaved and balanced. That in itself can be classed as godly.…

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By Janet Vargas - Owner of this Website

Part-Time Christians are mostly Churchy Christians who behave alright some of the time and not alright other times OR even most of the time. They are kind of alright when they're on the Church Scene, attending Services or Functions or playing a certain Role, be it Pastoral, Reception, Leading Women's Groups or Craft Groups Etc

If you are a Church Person and you think I may be getting the Church a “Bad Name”…… don’t worry because the Church already has one. I just like to make sure Jesus doesn’t take the Bad Wrap anymore and help people recognise the difference, passing on some Benefits instead of “Would you like to come to my Church?” and the person is thinking “Help No!” Honestly Folk, Walking with Jesus is Better than that – more Real, more Personal.

Yes like some of you, I have encountered those kind of people through the years, so I can relate with you.…

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The hypocrisy of TV Preachers has reached an all time high and does not make for Healthy Viewing. Especially unsavory guys like Kenneth Copeland. Many describe the crazy look of his eyes as Scary (unnatural and unsettling) You can hardly describe him as a "Man of God" because the culprit he has been all along has become very evident in his behavior, for all to see. He is the TV Preacher who
Made Merry when Covid broke out in 2020. His eyes were full of Greed.
The Pandemic did however Show many of those Creeps up with their
False Predictions!

Jesus did say there would be such people in days to come,
so it comes as no surprise to me, I've known it for years.

Joyce Meyer's Greed is evident to many, and the same with Creflo Dollar and Jesse Duplantis. They all own their own fancy Jets and have Extravagant Lifestyles, having no sense of shame whatsoever.

By Janet Vargas - Owner Of This Website

This Article is addressing Religious People who IMPOSE their Religion, and something much broader than aka Christians who Enjoy their Faith and their lives are balanced. I'm referring to all-manner of Religion that fills this Earth, and affects people's behavior - including Christian Cults.

Like the adage says "The proof is in the Pudding" after the likes of what I've heard and seen through the years - so many could possibly relate with this - I believe Religion (collectively) to be a "Devilish Agenda" rather than  Godly. How can I say that? Because most Religions Impose Religious Dogma rather than simply share some Answered Prayers that have been a  nice experience for them, whatever.

They're out to "Convert You" like it or not - even if you have a Religion  hey? Whatever your beliefs are, it has to be "their belief system" well and truly.......…

Janet Vargas Owner Of This Website

“I don't believe what the World's Come to!
My Mind Boggles in Disbelief....is it a Bad Dream?"

If you find yourself thinking thoughts like this, reading this Post could make some sense to you. Is it right for me to write this Article? Maybe you will realize something you have not before after reading. I felt that maybe
I should write on this Topic because so many people are asking the Question "What's happening to this World? Why all this?"

Does Religion Put You Off? It does Me. There are so many who like to Impose Religious Dogmas - One Brand over Another. I do find Atheists just as Religious because they often like to Impose their Dogmas. It does however seem evident that Some people who Claim to be Atheists just like to Protect themselves from the likes of Religion. You can understand their sentiments - those Religious Impositions really do get too much sometimes, the people are so overbearing!…

Janet Vargas Owner Of This Website

Hi Friends, I have been sharing recently, how Jesus Came through for me in various situations in my life, on a different Website. I will never Impose Religion of any kind, but love His Words when they are not Misconstrued.

I encourage you to Stay With Me through this Article,
because some of it will really Resonate with Many of You.

Jesus told me through a Genuine Christian years ago, He is going to soften hard hearts through me (at some time in some way.)
I prefer people with soft hearts, to encourage and pray for them, you know? However, there’s been 4 decades of working parents now, in Western Countries, without closely-knit loving cultures like there are in some Countries. So many people have been brought up without the Love and Attention they needed from their Parents, when their emotions were developing and have developed a hard shell around their hearts.…

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Janet Vargas Owner Of This Website

EVEN CHRISTIANITY IS IGNORANT ABOUT THIS, SO SOME CHRISTIAN SECTS PREACH A "HEAVEN and HELL" GOSPEL. I SAY THIS TO SOME CHRISTIANS "DID YOU KNOW THAT THE WORD 'GOSPEL' ACTUALLY MEANS 'GOOD NEWS' NOT 'SCARY NEWS? PEOPLE HAVE ENOUGH OF THAT OVER THE NEWS MEDIA." PLUS, I'M NOT IN FAVOR OF SCARING PEOPLE INTO ETERNITY: I THINK THE EMPHASIS IS WRONG - FINDING JESUS IS NOT MEANT TO BE A 'FIRE ESCAPE' IT'S THE BEST RELATIONSHIP WE WILL EVER EXPERIENCE IF WE CARE TO BE CLOSE TO HIM.

It is my personal belief, based on what I now know to be true, the only Hell that exists is the one (figuratively speaking) on this Earth with the Evils there are in this World and the awful things people experience.

SO FACTS ARE:
There is a Second Death Jesus referred to, that is a Spiritual Death, but not a Tormenting Place, created by a Sinister Vengeful God that Religions make Him out to be (if they think about it.)…

By Janet Vargas - Owner Of This Website

Adopting some things from Yesteryear and some of us have not even been brought up with, like having a Clothesline and drying our Clothes Naturally, for instance. In this Article, I hope I can Inspire you towards some beneficial changes that will make a difference in your life or family some time in the very new future. Makes for more Family Orientation - Constant Use of too many Modern "Conveniences" don't.
Shall we go?

Lets Enjoy Sunshine - Nature and Good Old-Fashioned Values!

Here's How Much Money You Save With A Clothesline And Some Advantages

You can Save 20% on your Electricity Bills here in Australia. Your Clothes and Sheets and Towels etc are Fresher. Especially your Tea Towels. You Enjoy the Sunshine and Fresh Air more often - they're actually Good for You, and everything feels fresh and lovely to wear and place on your beds etc.…

By Janet Vargas - Owner Of This Website

Depends what you mean, a real Christian Walk or a Churchy Christian Walk. Yes there is a marked difference. And sad to say most of what we see around us these days is far removed from what a Christian Walk was all about when it commenced 2,000 years ago, in it's original form. It was real, it was powerful, it was inviting.
So much so, people who witnessed it kept asking to join in (they did not need to be asked) and the numbers grew exponentially. It was unstoppable and something went very wrong 3 centuries later.

In 330AD, a Roman Emperor felt so threatened by this, he sought to make it a State Institution, so he could gain some control over the workings of it - the way they functioned. So Christianity was never meant to be like that, No, many need to get their Facts Straight and See the True Picture, not what they've been told in ignorance.…